Me and my partner use sex toys and we are proud of it! We do not feel any reason to be ashamed because we understand ourselves and we know that part of being human is to seek pleasure. And like our ancestors before us, we learned to use tools to better our living experience. Why should this be any different with sex, gratification and pleasure! I want to tell you my experience so you too can find pleasure in sex toys.
Know What You Want
First time using sex toys or buying your first sex toy is like propositioning your first man or woman. You are all sweaty, can’t look the person in the eye and your tongue decides to take a freakin vacation. The best advice for first time buyers is, GET IT OVER WITH. Who cares if your first purchase is crappy, it will still be a memorable experience.
Don’t Be Shy Ask Around
Everyone has been there; first time buyers and users will always be hesitant to ask for what they want. A good way to start your experience is by going online and browsing the many websites that advertise sex toys. But for first time buyers, it is really recommended that you visit an actual Location of a sex store for a more perfect fit.
You Need To USE IT!
Some sex toy buyers go thru all of the trouble and relative embarrassment and decide to hide, or throw away their purchase. That’s not right! You bought the freaking thing so use it, have fun with it!
Follow the Instructions
A word to the wise though: if there are instructions and warnings for use, it would be best to follow the same. Remember, we are looking to pleasure ourselves, not injure ourselves. Tip, whatever toy you buy, when you use it for the first time it would be best to stick with the basics before doing something more extravagant.
Last but not the least, have fun. Wash your toys before and after use. Be adventurous. And then go out and buy some more.
An integral factor when it comes to harmonious relationships of couples is actually sex. There are a lot of factors relating to sex such as sexual abstinence, which usually results in extramarital affairs and heated arguments that results into a break up of a couple. Those who happen to have smooth and long lasting relationships for several years happen to be couples with much better sex lives, as opposed to those who have relationships that aren’t really working well due to a weak sexual relationship that would eventually lead into break up. So prevent things from ending up musty with the following tips to heat up your sex lives.
Couples Sex Tips
1. Practice some BDSM and bondage play. It doesn’t really have to be hardcore BDSM or even an alternative lifestyle, so the next time you go to bed with the person you love, you might want to add a little blindfold and ropes to make things kinkier. SM play really works well if applied with sex toys, as if they are really complimentary for each other. Plan ahead with your partner what type of SM activity has to be done and never ever forget to use safe words during play. Trust and constant communication is a key factor for this type of play.
2. Make good use of sex toys. There is a huge misconception that sex toys are only for single, lonely people and that they are of no use to those who already have partners. They are especially of great assistance for those who already have erectile dysfunction and other sexual disorders. It also is recommended for those who really lack the time to do it together, and it isn’t considered infidelity. One would even be able to have pleasures never experienced before through creative application. Make sure to experiment and be imaginative.
3. Try out some lingerie, role playing, and sex games. A girl really looks erotic whenever she is wearing something such as a combination of a corset and a leather g-string, this really brings out her sexiness and lust factor. Trying out some sex games like strip poker adds some thrill before doing it. One could actually feel role playing more if actual costumes relating to the fantasized scenario are being worn and that improves the overall mood. One important factor in role playing is to open up with your partner.
Why choose just one or two when all scenarios and implements could be put together into one. The secrets to a blissful sex life are as follows: trust, communication, openness, open-mindedness, and being experimental, so always have that enthusiasm to try something new the next time you make out with your partner.