by sexphotoadmin on April 28, 2012
Sex toys are fucking awesome, with or without a partner! That is of course if you are open minded enough and liberated enough to try something new in bed or in any other place you and your partner decide to fuck. The rationale is simple, free fucking a.k.a. fucking without the use of adult sex toys is always a pleasurable experience but if you want to fuck the brains out of someone, you’ll need to have the right tools of the trade.
Know What You Want
First time using sex toys or the first purchase is always the hardest. You are shy at first and cannot look or tell the sex shop boy/girl what you need and what you want. The trick is be honest with yourself, know what you want, it does not matter if you’re heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, or if you derive pleasure from non mainstream means such as anal, BDSM, bondage, etc. You have your own sexual preference so speak up and make that purchase.
Don’t Be Shy Ask Around
Nowadays, sex toys can be purchased via the internet, and this is not really a bad way to get started with what you want. Look at the many websites, note down your favorite porn star sex toy, or participate in blogs. But if you can, then it would be best to visit an actual sex store locations so you not only see what you buy, but feel it.
USE IT
Some sex toy buyers go thru all of the trouble and relative embarrassment and decide to hide, or throw away their purchase. That’s not right! You bought the freaking thing so use it, have fun with it!
Follow the Instructions
A word to the wise though: if there are instructions and warnings for use, it would be best to follow the same. Remember, we are looking to pleasure ourselves, not injure ourselves. Tip, whatever toy you buy, when you use it for the first time it would be best to stick with the basics before doing something more extravagant.
Make Sure You Have Fun
The last and probably the most important tip for first time sex toy users is to forget about what society thinks of your sexual preference. Think about you and/or your partner’s sexual gratification. Pleasure yourself with your first purchase, clean it before and after use; and don’t forget, there are more where that came from.
by sexphotoadmin on April 11, 2012
Sex always plays an important part when it comes to the stability of the relationship of couples. Extramarital affairs, and even sexual abstinence that usually ends up into constant bickering are just some of the few factors that are related to sex that usually contribute to the breaking up of a couple. Couples with better sex lives usually have a longer lasting and smoother relationship that would last for many years, unlike those who happen to be lacking and have a sexual relationship that isn’t working well, which would drag down and even destroy a relationship in the long run. So be sure to add some spice into your sex life with the following practices before the thing goes sour.
Couples Sex Tips
1. Have some bondage and BDSM play in your sexual activities. It doesn’t have to be necessarily living the alternative lifestyle or even some really hardcore SM stuff, just make things a little more kinky next time by adding up a gag and a collar, and leash; and learn some rope bondage. To experience the height of pleasure during SM play, one should try to make use of sex toys and take things to the next level of ecstasy. Planning ahead with your partner before SM play is a must and this even improves the level of communication and trust, also, safe words are always a must during this type of kinky activities.
2. Take advantage of using sex toys. There is a typical misnomer about Couples sex toys being useless for those who already have partners and are just meant for singles. Aside from that, they are also of great aid for people with sexual disabilities. For those who really lack the time to do it together, rather than commit infidelity, it is much better to just resort to using them. For those who haven’t experienced using them before, they would definitely feel a new type of ecstasy. To use them to their full potential, it pays to be experimental and ingenious.
3. Add up some lingerie, role playing, and play some sex games. Wearing lingerie such as a g-string and fishnet stockings really brings out the sexiness and boosts the erotic appeal of a woman. Playing sex games and role playing, on the other hand, could really be fun; adding up some costumes during role playing really enhances the overall mood. Discuss what type of scenario has to be played out. Opening up your fantasies with your partner is the way to make this type of play really effective.
Combining the above three into a single scenario is even possible. Just always remember, the key to a happier sex life is trust, constant communication, being open with each other, and being experimental, so make sure to be open-minded and always be enthusiastic about trying out new things in the bedroom.
